Comments on: Weighing In

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 07:02:54 +0000

‘You are just perfect’ The inscription on the little cermaic ballerina figurine my parents gave to me while battling Anorexia. I finally believe it, though it took me many years. We are all beautiful creatures. and your amazing sense of beauty and positivity helps us remember that.

Thank you, :)

By: vanessa

vanessa — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:32:32 +0000

Bif, you are an inspiration! Never giving up on your practices, even during chemo. That’s couragous, to say the least. Perhaps being in the public eye could help motivate you to do what you do, but you don’t look like much of a lounger to me. Regardless of what you are doing, “for a living.” — IF your working on a new album, I sure hope your present band sticks around to record it. You guys rocked hard on the last one! I still can’t believe it didn’t get more air time…But what do I know? I’ve got a monkey mind! Looking forward to hearing whatever your next one is like. PEACE

By: Donna

Donna — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 13:48:32 +0000

Bif I think you are right on there! Thinking about all that stuff doesn’t matter. I look at my cat sometimes and think she’s so relaxed…. she doesn’t have to worry about all the stuff I do… but most of the time I don’t need to worry about it anyways! My goal over the last year has been to be as healthy as I can be, physically, and mentally. And I think I’ve made so much progress over the last year! I’ve started to read a book called “The Art of Happiness” written by Dr Howard Cutler, about his talks with The Dalai Lama…. i’ve only just begun reading it and I’ve had so much to think about already (positive thinking!) ~I think you’d enjoy the read too :)
Much love to you beautiful girl!!
Donna

By: Maya

Maya — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 02:44:10 +0000

I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

By: Marcina

Marcina — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 00:01:34 +0000

I think as women we have it wired in our brains to obsess over our weight and how we look. In most of my photos I am goofing off and making a fool of myself because I’m really insecure about how I look. I especially hate my side profile because of my nose and round cheeks. I tell people “DONT TAKE PHOTOS OF ME FROM THE SIDE!!!” Lol!

But Bif, you are beautiful on the outside and in the inside. A lot of people don’t have that. Your muscles put mine to shame too! Hehehe!
We all have our sweat-pants and hoodie days because we feel fat.. But know that you totally aren’t! Quite honestly, I haven’t noticed any weight gain in you except for muscle. You look more buff than before but you’re still lean.
And very very photogenic!! I took over a hundred photos of you at your last show and you looked great in all of them. :)