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Dec
Why Worry?
Namaste and Salaam!!! Bonjour, Merhaba,Yo,Hola,and Word-to-yo-Mama!!! My Darling Friends, December is upon us! Woot! Woot! What a thrill! Let us be grateful we have much to do! Om Nama Shivaya.
I have noticed, as you may have, that a lot of people seem to become rather stressed in December. Weird. I thiink it is because of the pressure, in our consumerism-ripe society, of “Christmas”.
This is puzzling.
Often, I am guilty of a response like, “oh..are you Christian?” Which isn’t really a question, as much as it is my attempt to make a point. This is a naughty habit, in an effort to disarm. My purpose is to point out that it is a “Christian celebration”. Its about Jeezus’ birthday, non? So whywhywhy is it so weeeeeird for people?? It should be a birthday party!
December finds us bombarded with subconcious+subliminal messages to BUYBUYBUY and spend money on everything from Christmas decorations to booze to food(as in “extra” food) to clothes-for-parties to GIFTS for people…..and most folks are simply trying to get through the end of a challenging fiscal year. Non? Do you notice a simmering undercurrent of stress regarding these things?
Its a sin.
A shame.
We ALL do it, suseptable to the collective stress of the masses.
I ssay fuck it! Don’t stress. Don’t worry. Don’t get caught-up. Don’t lose your center.
Yes…..December is weird. Don’t spend money!!!!
MAKE YOUR GIFTS!!!!!!!
I assure you: people will be delighted! Make a painting for your mom. Even if you are terrible (like moi…I paint because its fun-not because I have a fine arts degree-THATS FOR SURE! LOL!) Ihave included an example of a painting of, big shocker, NICKLAS!! As you can see, this is easy for anyone to do!
Just paint ANYTHING! Even a few brush stokes on a piece of paper and, voila!!! Abstract art!!
The people whom are the lucky recipients of your thoughtfullness will be touched by your unique efforts!!! TRUST ME!
You do NOT have to be worried that “Christmas is coming”. You can approach December joyfully and with a lighthearted easiness.
Because it will come…..and pass…and you will survive. And, maybe, you will even discover a new hobby? :)
I am sending you all warm hugs, high-fives, and fuckin’horns, as we get into this: the final month of our calendar year!!! Yaaaaaaay!
Remember: you don’t have to stress.
Just relax. Have fun. Be yourself. And be creative!
Save your money for rent/food/buspass/panhandlers/savings/charities/emergencies/concert tickets/whatever. Life is full of enough worries. December shouldn’t be one of em. Word.
Loveloveloveloveydovey big hugs to all you Beautiful People,
Have a wonderful week!!!
Love,
Biffy
Xo





December 1st, 2009 at 1:15 PM
Bif,
You are such a sister. I need to get in touch with you regarding a raw food…………. tv series(which I cannot say online cause at this point as I am in the process of bringing on investors and making a network deal. I just emailed your agency.) Please take a look at my website – we met years ago a number of times in Vancouver through the music industry. I realize you are super busy but I would love for you to host it or be on one episode if this resonates for you.
Please get in touch with me at kelly@kellymason.com.
This is so funny how I am trying to contact you, such the information age.
In Love and Light
Kelly
December 1st, 2009 at 2:35 PM
Amazing blogs :) your blogs are awesome! And they are so true !! :P
December 1st, 2009 at 2:52 PM
I’m celebrating Christmas this year in a different way. One of them is to paint the windows at the Ford dealership where my mom and stepdad work. I love to paint and I was so honored they asked me to take on such a big project!
Another thing I do each and every year is pick a charity to donate to. So far I’ve donated to The Breast Cancer Foundation, WWF, and for Christmas I have chosen the SPCA.
I’ve also donated food items for the food drive this year. Extra money for me = more giving! I never think about what I’m going to get.. Because I get so much joy out of giving. The Holidays are a happy time!
December 2nd, 2009 at 12:58 PM
I “celebrate” christmas as the wrap up of the year. These last 2 years have been a piece of work to say the least. We learn more from the trials in our life than from when it’s all fine and we’re cruising through it, feeling the warm breeze through our hair…..am I right, or am I right?
Next year in March I will hit the big 50! Won’t that be something to celebrate? I already feel like a brand new me.
Joyous life to all!
December 3rd, 2009 at 6:20 PM
Good advice! It’s easy to get caught up in all that commercial crap!!