11
Sep
BFF Fo Sho!!!

Namaste and MeckaLeckaHigh, MeckaHiney-Ho!!!!!! Most Loveydovey, Highest Blessings to everyone! I trust you are all livin in the fast lane of everysingle moment, and successfully navigating all the craziness of “life”.
Life, as they say, is beautiful. Breathtakingly so. Just fucking amazing!
And, as they also say, life is fucked.
Sometimes.
(Then again, its all perspective, Lovies!!!)
Alas, no matter how deliberately optimistic and patient we are………sometimes, life DOES get one down. Finances or broken heartedness or disappointments or health difficulties or WORSE (abuse, violence, etc.etc.) And it seems insurmountable.
Hopefully, FAMILY is strong, supportive, and loving. Om Nama Mama!!! (Hi, Mommyji!!! Teehee!)
But, often, we may be fortunate enough, and blessed enough, to include DEAR FRIENDS in our “family” heading. Think about it. Think about your truest friends. I am veryveryvery lucky to have good and true friends (besides you Beauties!!!!! And know that I mean it when I say: I send you warm love from my heart! I am ALWAYS grateful for you all……….okay…except three or four very unwell individuals who are ALSO READING THIS YOU SICK FUCKS WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ILLEGAL!!!)
*ahem* but, I digress….. LOL!
(Loooong story still unfolding. Film at 11, yo!)
But I have a small circle of “intimates”-my longtime (like, decades!) Close friends who know and love me unconditionally, as I them. Like, since highschool! (Trust me- a LOOONG time! LOL!)
Like you guys, I have my friends who have shared everything with me all the way from the beginning: from training bras in grade seven, through university, through babybands+makin music, through boyfriends and heartbreaks, through parents terminal illnesses and marriages beginning and ending and through even the births of many babies (all theirs not mine), we have seen each other through hells and triumphs, and the root of the friendships still remains the same.
It is a righteous thing and so good for the heart+soul. Om Shanti Love! I am so grateful for my friends. :)
And, I am grateful for Nicklas’ friends.
He is pictured, above, with his best friend (they are like brothers!), CHULA! (Whom I refer to as “Chuleeee” or “ChulaPants” or “Mr.Pants”.
Chula has been best friends with Nick since the day they met (when Chula’s mom, my friend Denise, rescued him from Idaho..) And Chula was also friends with Sri Annastasia (MayPeaceBeUponHer) up until the day she died.
ChulaPants and Nicklas are like thugs, rollin around together, barking and generally misbehaving with their stinkbug-rollin’ and hawking their mommies for “dogtreats” (which I give in the form of unsalted rice cracker pieces). They both love babycarrots and Boney M. And James Brown. (Annastasia’s favorite music was Enya).
Ahhhhh, yes. Friendships are the BEST!
I honor and cherish and respect and love and treasure my FRIENDS! I hope all of you gets to have some quality tine with your friends (and/or family) this weekend. Hug them hard and hold them close and TELL them how goshdarn much you appreciate their friendship.
Our relationships are supposed to enrich our lives (aannnd not be codependant or toxic or hurtful, etc.etc. …..ummm..a WHOLE other blog!! Haha!)
And, may YOUR RELATIONSHIPS BE LOVING AND EMPOWERING AND SUPPORTIVE AND GOODFUCKINFUN!
From Nicklas, Chula, and I -have an amazing and beautiful weekend, and go hang out with your friends!!!!! Its good for you! Om Nama Shivaya.
With tons o’ hellfire and lots of love+blessings,
Biffy
Xoxo




September 11th, 2009 at 1:05 PM
I cherish all my friends old and new. One of them is getting married this weekend, so there will be lots of hugs and laughter…and many more stories to tell.
love one another
Many Blessings….to all
September 11th, 2009 at 1:34 PM
I’ve never had a lot of friends, but I’ve always had QUALITY friends! Most of them moved away but I still keep in touch with them whenever I can. They all have they’re own families now, but they have enriched my life and made me the person I am today! One of my best friends I have known since the 1st grade! My other best friend I met in the 5th grade. Even though they live far away we’re still able to keep in touch through the internet. And lastly, there is my sister. She is my other best friend. She lives only a block away and we talk to each other every day.
I’m also very close with my spousie, Silvio. And I consider him another one of my best friends, and life partner.
Then there’s also animals.. Hehe I could go on and on. I have so many animal friends! Cats, dogs, lizards, the birds that visit my birdfeeder every day..
Lots of love!! :)
September 11th, 2009 at 8:55 PM
Aww that’s so cute :). My JRTs also have their best friends: only they tend to be a bit, er, ‘racist’ (gasp!) and only like to associate with other Jack Russells! haha
I have lots of “fair weather friends” but only a select few who area really hard-core like family and were there for me for all my cancer shit; it’s such a cliche but true; when the shit really hits the fan, you find out exactly who your friends really are.
I’m glad you were there for me to shoot the shit about cancer crapness too. Thanks! :)
September 14th, 2009 at 1:16 PM
One true friend is better than a million fakes… that quote has always held true for me. I really don’t have a lot of friends but the ones that I do are true and dear to me. My best friend just recently moved 2 hours away from me after being less than 2 blocks away for about 12 years… it’s still really hard adjusting but I know that we will always keep in touch and be best friends… she is like my sister and as long as we love each other then our friendship will stay strong ^.^ On another note, I hope you are okay and these creeps you keep referring to leave you alone! It’s scary stuff, I know how you must feel, although probably not to the same extent. We are all here for you and are sending blissful energy your way to protect you and your Walker and Babydog! <3 It’s not fair when a select few have to ruin a wonderful blog that’s meant to help, share, and inspire people, and I hope they are dealt with accordingly. Anywhoooo, keep your spirits up girly! love ya! :)