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If Memory Serves Me….

Namaste! Salaam! Yo!Yo!Yo! Highest Blessings to everyone from the Praries! Yes, LoveyPeople, we left promptly apres the Canada Day show in Vancouver, to play the first “alternative” night ever at Dauphin (Manitoba’s) Country Music Fest!!! YeeeeeeHaw!!!!
What an adventure! Yeah…its true…my dentist father left his position at the University of Kentucky (where he was a professor of Dentistry) and moved my family up to Dauphin, Manitoba (Canada’s National Ukranian Capitol) to take a teaching position there.
I spent junior high school in Dauphin. A serendipitous existance until the grade nine girls deemed my sisters and I “uncool” and I swiftly attempted to hone my comedic skills (which was unsuccessful) to defer those traditional girlfights in our culture.
I DID discover dirt bike-riding, skidooing, Iron Maiden, kissing, hockey, cabbage rolls, and cheerleading there, however. LOL! It was an integral time in my life, and I have very fond memories. :)
I stole my parents’ Ford Fairmont station wagon (at 13yrs old!) In Dauphin. I participted in Spoken French Poetry at the arts festivals (and thus began my love of exploring languages) and took ballet classes through a Royal Winnipeg Ballet teacher who came up from Winnipeg twice a week (I had already taken ballet since I was about four…by the time my studies ended, unceremoniously, I had thirteen years of dance training under my belt…which still serves me on stage to this day! LOL!) I even learned (from my veryever “first boyfriend” all about The Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers comics, wrestling, and how to smoke hashish off a pin!!!
Nice. (Obviously I DON’T do drugs NOW and do not approve of Minors using any drugs of any kind. Just sayin’..)
We moved to Winnipeg (as my dad took a position at the University of Manitoba) by the time I started high school. I continued on to University of Winnipeg after that (rocky highschool life/running away from home/ lots of unfortunate misadventure in between) but, alas, dropped out due to TOURING (!) In my First semester.
Ahhhhhhh, yes. I remain the Quintessential Prarie Girl and my experiences helped build my foundation. Om Nama Shivaya. I’m proud of it. :)
It was veryvery cool to play at the festival, even though I have been running on three hours’ sleep for weeks+weeks. I was extremely nervous to play+see everyone I grew up with (BELIEVE me: I was SUCH A DOG in Junior High! LOL!!!)
The photo I’ve included, today, was a self-shot pic standing in the curtains of the motel room window. Fuck! I’m such a girlygirl, now! I LOVE makeup! Love it!
Haha! (Its like playin’ dress-up every day!) Plus, my eyebrows STILL haven’t grown back from chemo so I have to paint em on everyday (and, more often than not, I draw em’ on wrong, and “one’s-lookin’-for-ya-and-one’s-lookin’ AT-ya” !)
I hope everyone has a beautiful and blissful weekend, and enjoys wherever you are, whatever you do, and whoever you are BECOMING. :)
Let’s all take a second to reflect on our adolescence, and the gifts it brought. Yes, the gifts. :)
I am very grateful for everyday I EVER had on this battered lil’ planet, and I endeavour to carry that same deliberate mindfulness with me always.
If you ever have a chance- go to Dauphin. Eat some homemade perogies. And tell em’ I sent ya!
Om Nama Shivaya. Om Hare Om.
Love,
Biffy
Xo




July 4th, 2009 at 12:52 PM
Frick, what an awesome post and an awesome pic!! Thanks for sharing these memories with us!!
I am also still a prairie girl at heart, having grown up in a small Sask town of 500 people..yes, 500!! You just know what you know when you are a kid – looking back, it was pretty good for the most part and it has shaped me into who I am today, so I really can’t complain!!
Your brows look great! I did chuckle about the “one’s looking for ya and one’s looking at ya” bit! Your early comedic skills have served you well because I find you super funny!! I think it would be quite entertaining to sit in on a conversation with you and Jann Arden!
Thanks again for going on tour – I was lucky enough to take in 3 of them so far this summer and have left each one feeling rejeuvenated and lucky to have seen another one!!
Take care,
Liza =)
July 4th, 2009 at 12:56 PM
Awesome story, Bif. Thanks for sharing! I think all of us were “dogs” in junior high.. Lol. I used to be such a tomboy! I never wore makeup or did my hair.. I wasn’t into clothes.. It was T-shirts and worn out jeans for me! I looked at my old 8th grade photo and I swear I look like Dana Carvey.. Bleh! Party on, Garth!
July 4th, 2009 at 7:42 PM
Biffy Grrl,
Aww babe you look great ofcoarse , in my personal option, they didnt know what they were missing! Girls that bug are girls that are jealous. They saw “threat”of the beauty that you are.
Lol , im glad you rocked the country fest, i hope you at least wore a cowboy hat once.. please make sure you get a pic in a cowboy hat at the stampede when you go. We wanna see Cowgirl Walker ^_~.
LOVE you guys, take cares on your trips!!
Silver xoxoxo
July 5th, 2009 at 2:18 PM
LOL Marcina now I can’t look at Dana Carvery anymore without thinking of you!! (not THAT way!) lol! I love the prairies… they are so open and beautiful, lots of water and berries and trees and cows… <3 but it’s so DRY! That’s the only downside. AND I LOVE PEROGIES!! I will definately have to take a trip there someday… om nom nom!
July 6th, 2009 at 4:55 AM
Hey Bif!
Sounds like it was a really cool show, I’ve been looking at all of Marcinas photos on her group on facebook, they’re all so cool! I’m very envious of all the people who can come to your shows! I just went to Morocco to see a world music festival, that was very cool, music on the beach…. it was very hot though!! Now I’m back in Britain and it’s raining!!
Girly girl makeup is really fun!!! What make do you use? We sell Dr Hauschka and Elysambre in my shop, they’re both nice, but I can never find a good natural foundation? Any ideas?
Love x x
July 6th, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Yes, adolescence is a trial at the time, but a lesson in survival! Came in handy during my own cancer battle. I had inflammatory BC, so had chemo, surgery, rads, etc. My eyebrows are still a little thin too (it’s been over a year since I finished chemo) but drawing them in is a small price to pay to be here alive! Woo hoo!
July 6th, 2009 at 5:58 PM
Hey Biffy !
I grew up in Brandon for over 20 years ! so yes, i have made the occasional foray up to clear lake and then past there to Dauphin! I have had perogies there and they are amazing ! I loved hearing about your memories from there, especially since i grew up very closeby…we are both prairie peeps! I’m proud to be a prairie boy too! There is something weird in the water or air or something, but it happens in the prairies and a part of it sticks with you for life! maybe it’s the harsh frigid winter…who knows! Surviving a Manitoba winter is tough in itself ! ha. hope you bought some perogies to take home with you! Nick and Walker might wanna try one ! :P
July 14th, 2009 at 8:52 PM
Hey girl,
You were sooo not a dog in Dauphin! You would have won the best “feathered hair” contest hands down! It’s funny what we remember about ourselves back then. Does anyone like themselves in junior high?? Can any man really get over their permed mullet and tinted sunglasses?
I Saw your show at countryfest and it was amazing. Everyone had great things to say about it and your name was buzzing around the beer gardens for a long time after you left the stage. You are one hell of a talented woman!!!
take care,
Michelle D
July 19th, 2009 at 6:50 AM
Hey!
Saw you in Dauphin…. Great to know that Grade 9 wasn’t that terrible! I have great memories of us as well.
Keep in touch,
Kim Wasylyshen