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Feb
The Perils of Attachment
Namaste, Salaam, and Lovepower to all you Beautiful Sentient Beings on this FRIDAY THE 13TH!!! Hahaha! What does this really mean? Neverever having been a fan of “horror” films, or “scary” thingys- the whole superstition thang is a wee lost upon me. But, of course, I respect it. (Just in case!)
And, tomorrow, everyone is supposed to gorge themselves on “effort” in all-matters-loveydovey”, with Valentine’s. Shouldn’t EVERYday be that loveydovey?? :). Yup. Its all about mindfully being deliberately lovey everyday. Fuck yeah! (Whoops! Swearingnaughtygrrl!)
Soooo….I wanted to thank you all for your good wishes for my BIG injection this week (my little daily injections are like no big whoop anymore, hey?) And I am happy to announce my wee whore-moan pellet has a lovely home in my belly, one-inch below-and-one-inch to the right of my bellybutton. Where the unsightly bruise lives. Hahahahaha! And I only thought about it that day and my anxious feelings subsided the very minute it was over.
Aint that just like life? The “anticipation” always makes things worse. Our “attachment” to our fears. Sheesh! The effort to remain “unattached” to trivialities and anxieties is something that requires life-long practice. I am ever the student.
My attachment to gum. (Oh, yeah..I SOOOO fell off the wagon!!! Hahahahha! Monday morning, like a tweaker, I chewed Dentine Blast Cinnamon- about twelve pieces in my mouth at once-till I had red gob staining my lips like lipgloss, en route to that doctor. Duh!)
My attachment to “The Perfect Cup of Coffee” (this attachment is increasingly irritating for me, because it is inconvenient to trouble-shoot the whole “hempmilk-vs-ricemilk” quandry. Ummmm……there are more important problems in the world, non?? Haha! Duh!)
My attachment to bananas. (Ummmmm…..could it be a “shape” thing? Or some subliminal quest?? Hahaha! Duh! Truth is….as it is a “sub-acid” fruit, like dates, it is likely there is a physiological thing going on…like a bloood-sugar spike-upon-eating????)
Yes, attachments are everywhere for everyone of us. When I was a little more “agro”, mentally, I used to view attachments (especially within myself) as complete weakness! I was extremely intolerant of my own ebb-and-flow, mentally. Now, I hope anyway, I am more patient and accepting. :)
With everything.
Even Nicklas, who we see here, at home. He is the most indulged babydog and I am attached to spoiling him!!!! Fucking rights! (Naughtyswearingwhoopsie!)
Everyday he is my Valentine.
An attachment I shant give up. Om nama shivaya.
Eat chocolate because you’re supposed to (but mostly because its nummy! And remember: dark chocolate IS vegan! Yay!) And let the fear of superstition fall away…..there is no “bad luck”. :)
Be your own Valentine EVERYDAY and feel loved and whole and happy!
Om hare om.
Love,
Biffy
Xo
February 13th, 2009 at 11:00 AM
what an adorable photo!!!!!!!!!!!
February 13th, 2009 at 11:00 AM
Wishing you an early Happy Valentine’s Day, Bif! :]
You’re awesome!
<3 Kitten C.
February 13th, 2009 at 11:04 AM
Kickass Biffer!! Glad to hear that your whore moan was a success!! Have a super day and a fantastic weekend!! =)
February 13th, 2009 at 11:59 AM
I’m really not the superstitious type. If something bad happens on Friday the 13th it’s really hard for me to tell it from any other day that bad things happen, although I do have something about the month of november and July the 4th. Bad things seem to happen to me the most then! REally bad things! Just a superstition, I’m sure! *looks around nervously* Glad the shot thing went so well! The anticipation is worse than the actual fear itself in most cases!
February 13th, 2009 at 12:21 PM
Biffy, I must thank you, you inspired me to get off my ass and go do something that I’ve been talking about for years! I finally entered the race for life (it’s a charity fundraiser over here in the UK that raises money for cancer research) I’m nervous, but excited at the same time! I look up to you in many ways, not just as a wonderful singer and performer (I saw you in Glasgow when you were supporting Alterbridge and I was blown away by your stage presence!) but also as a strong, confident woman!
So, yeah, my point is thanks! :D
Much love xXx
February 13th, 2009 at 2:05 PM
heya bif, I LOVE ricemilk on my cereals, beats cows milk everytime, just be careful if you add sugar, it is a bit sweeter. i dont understand the 13th thing either, and valentines is a christian festival of st. valentine, so there is no attatchment there either. At least we can look forward to Eoster, march 20th. yay for spring :)
February 13th, 2009 at 3:16 PM
Nothing wrong with attachments…I’ve got my beagle pup, and my tunes (excited for the new Lamb of God?!), and I think those are some pretty fair, healthy things to hang onto! Trying to let go of all those fears and anxieties though myself, yer right, it’s a process.
I’d totally make you a lame valentine out of construction paper and cut out with safety scissors if I could :) but happy v-day biffy!
February 13th, 2009 at 4:13 PM
Happy Valentine’s Day! (It’s 2 AM here, so it’s ok to wish one for you :D)
I like Friday the 13th. This year we have quite few of them :)
Attachments are something that just go with us. We have to learn to live with them. Some things are good to us, some aren’t. Getting attached on something good is the best that can happen ;)
I’m attached to my cat. I shouldn’t spoil her, but I have been doing that for 2 years so it’s really hard to stop now.
Anticipation is always the worst part. When I had my tonsils removed I was like thinking of hundred things that can go wrong. I’ve had nasty cases when the bleeding didn’t stop, so I was really nervous. Few hours after the surgery I walked out of the hospital and went to do the groceries :D
Hugs n’ kisses! Hope you have a great Valentine’s Day!
February 13th, 2009 at 5:13 PM
Tomorrow is my birthday! I’m waiting with EXTREME anticipation for a picture of somebody I asked for as a present. I hope she doesn’t just blow me off and forget about it.
Since I got foreclosed on my “material girl” had to go. I just did not have enough money to keep her happy so when the bitching got unbearable she had to go. So that means I’m spending not only my birthday AND Valentines day alone. I’m not getting shit this year and that does not bother me. I’m going to be alone this year and that doesn’t bother me.
I just REALLY hope that personalized to me pic arrives. It’s all I want anyway. Well, a few more days will tell me if it’s coming, so I wait…
February 13th, 2009 at 5:21 PM
Happy Valentines day :)
Well early one & i love gum to
I could never give it up Haha.
I just love reading ur blogs
They really make me happy when im down
Nick is adorble & My pets my valentine to
But its a cat i guess its the same thing His names Meatball
And i could never give up spoiling him .
-Have a happy v-day
xoxoxox
February 13th, 2009 at 7:14 PM
How about shaving some dark chocolate, mashing it into a paste with a little bit of banana and stuffing that inside a Medjool date…
February 13th, 2009 at 9:52 PM
You ever seen one of those banana cases? It’s a container for your banana and it looks like a friggin dildo! It’s hilarious!
Btw, I always have a hard time finding vegan dark chocolate unless it’s the expensive or organic stuff.. People put “modified milk ingredients” in everything and I’m allergic!! Blaaargh!
Oh well ^^
When I do find it it’s like a treasure!
Hope your hubby does something sweet for you on Valentine’s Day!
February 14th, 2009 at 10:25 AM
Hey Bif! I’m glad about your belly thingy. And it’s okay to chew gum once in a while, twelve pieces is a little extensive though! lol… =)
Ooh, hey… What’s Ian doing? You don’t say much about him. =)
See ya!
February 14th, 2009 at 10:55 AM
We have Perils of Attachment to you grrlie.. *_*
hugs and kisses
happy heart day
Silver
February 14th, 2009 at 12:52 PM
You have a beautiful heart lady. Here’s to dreams fulfilled and helping those less fortunate. Cheers.
February 14th, 2009 at 10:41 PM
OMG to earlier post that is random and kinda thinkin u had a good v day. My attachment is ferre roches. don’t know how the heck to spell it but either way they melt in my mouth. Hope u had a fab V DAY Bif can’t wait for the new cd
February 15th, 2009 at 8:43 AM
nom nom nom nom nom, I bought some dark chocolate thismorning before I even had breakfast…. naughty naughty hehehehe, I’m gonna go open it now! hahahaha!
Hope you had a nice lovey dovey weekend, I know I did for sure! Plus my kittercat was 10 years old yesterday! I can’t believe it! She’s the bestest ever, *gush*
Anyways, bliss and wonderfulness to you, you brave person!
x
February 16th, 2009 at 3:21 AM
Friday the 13th and Valentines Day aren’t really a big deal………….,but chocolate……………….YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS,now your talkin’ !!!! LOVEPOWER back at ya Bif !!!!
February 27th, 2009 at 5:04 PM
The word is “Dukkha”
“Whatever is impermanent is subject to change.”
“Whatever is subject to change is subject to suffering.”
” The Buddha”
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